cheat and let live part 2
People with a predilection to cheat:
People can be more inclined towards infidelity than others for several reasons:
One, insecurity: some people just have the need to reassure themselves that they still got the bling. That’s why some people in their mid-life have this propensity too. Kailangang patunayan ang asim. You can also see this among those who flirt a lot without committing to the flirtation. Someone can be perfectly aware of his charms and of women-friends or male friends who are fascinated by him/her; he/she keeps the friendship, continues the flirtation and takes care of his/her ego.
Two, some people have a fondness for the thrill of the forbidden: there may be two people, both committed, who justify dangerous grounds by calling it a harmless flirtation. They do this because of the excitement that comes with the hiding. Or maybe they don’t even hide; they just sort of cover it up with a proclaimed friendship in order to appease themselves with the fact of a possible fallback. These people could be still in love with the people they are with, but are unsure of the future of their present relationships because of a specific challenge.
Three, some people find compatibilities in amazing proportions with each other, they consider compatibilities the basis for a fool-proof relationship, they will keep looking until they find that person that exactly fits them, and believe me they can be articulating it to every person they have been with. People get into relationships for different reasons, some just plain find the magic of love (ambaduy), some, in the beginning, jump in for the challenge and some because of the fact that compatibilities automatically mean an issue-less time with each other (or if you can guess what the other person is feeling then you can already manipulate them from your side of the court ;)).
Four, some people are in bad relationships, they may be seeing something wrong in their relationship or there is a looming possibility that the current one is going to end soon. They, on the other hand, do not have the courage to take the risk of breaking the current relationship without a clear assurance of the new one. My boyfriend said that when a man cheats it is usually based on the libido; it is usually a sexual thing. However, when a woman cheats, then there is something fundamentally wrong with the relationship. I don’t specifically know why, but yes, I believe him. 
Five, some people just fall in love in a blink of an eye. These people could be vulnerable their whole lives, they can interpret an act of kindness easily as a message of undying devotion.
Six, some people just need to scratch. (siguro, walang pader sa kanila hehe ;))
